You don’t need to get even with somebody who hurt you in your life. You don’t have to insult those who previously insulted you. Not everybody is worthy of your attention, even when it comes to the negative.
Sometimes, the best way to deal with uncomfortable situations is to not react at all.
But not reacting to all the things that are bothering you, you are showing a huge level of maturity and wisdom.
Your energy is way too precious to be spent on reacting to the things that are annoying you. The only thing that will happen is, that you will exhaust your positivity, which is going to stop you from seeing the goodness and beauty in everything else.
Not all people are going to like you, and that is totally fine. People are not always going to treat you the way you deserve, but that does not mean that you should stoop on their level. By just walking away, you are going to save yourself from the trouble of trying to ‘win’ someone’s affection, especially if they don’t deserve it.
And not reacting doesn’t mean that you are alright with how things are.
You can remain quiet and in charge and state ‘NO’ to dramatization since harmony is vitally critical to you.
You needn’t bother with anybody to approve you. You needn’t bother with individuals disclosing to you that you aren’t sufficient. You don’t require bogus companions and shallow connections.
That’s why by not reacting, you’re in truth saying all that needs to be said.
By responding to the incitements of others, you are giving them the green light to stomp on over you. Along these lines, as opposed to attempting to control others, try to control yourself, your thoughts, and your activities.
Also, by choosing the stoic path, you’re sending a very strong message that you are not going to tolerate disrespectful behavior of any kind.
After all, sometimes it’s just better to reset everything, than wait on someone to change, or give your closure.